Monday, July 14, 2025

Sitaare Zameen Par, Movie Review, 2025


***spoilers alert***

Following from the precedence set by the hugely successful and brilliant Taare Zameen Par, in 2007, Aamir Khan brings us a second take (and, mind you, not a sequel) of putting the spotlight on mentally differently-abled individuals, in the cleverly named Sitaare Zameen Par.

The film tells the story of a self-absorbed and obnoxious but highly talented basketball coach, Gulshan (Aamir), who, as a community service punishment for drunk driving, is assigned as the coach of the basketball team in an institution for special needs adolescents, tasked with training them to compete in an upcoming national tournament. Like the majority in our society, he is not only oblivious to the reality of people with mental disabilities, but also downright rude and dismissive of them as being ‘not normal’. As he is given no choice but to complete his service period, he goes through the journey from hate to tolerance to loving these youngsters who are not special because of their handicaps, but because of their unique personalities, their intense capacity to love, their unlimited ability to be human, and their unbelievably young and large hearts. As he transforms the team from a dysfunctional bunch of individuals to a high-performing winning basketball team reaching the finals, he goes through his own transformation as a person, realising (as he himself says in the film), ‘it is not he who is coaching them, it is them who are coaching him to be a better person’.


Firstly, the most obvious and important thing. The mission of the film and the fact that it was made deserves the most outstanding applause. Telling the story of dyslexia when perhaps the larger social awareness of any kind of mental disability was non-existent 18 years ago was a monumental feat then. Telling the story of the spectrum of intellectual disabilities with an attempt to not only educate the larger audience but also with an ambition of ‘normalising’ it, again is a brilliant achievement. But it is brilliant not for the same reason as Taare Zameen Par (TZP), and that’s the important difference. There are three key points of difference. 


TZP was perhaps the first time this conversation was being had on such a mass scale, bringing it front and centre for many. By contrast, Sitaare Zameen Par (SZP) in 2025 is not a new conversation at all. The positive side of the social media revolution in the last two decades has made the idea of an inclusive society for people with special needs quite common. SZP is impactful because 18 years later it focuses on the ‘say-do’ gap reality of our current times. We all talk of an inclusive society. But we know we are not in our actions. And that’s why while TZP was about building awareness, SZP is about openly challenging and pushing us into walking the talk. That’s why Gulshan’s character (as a representation of the majority) is so in-your-face, and he gets it in his face quite loudly as well.


Secondly, TZP was the story of one person, one child, Ishaan Awasthi (brilliantly portrayed by Darsheel Safary), and while a beautiful story, it was the story of an ‘exception’ amongst people. TZP championed the idea that there are few people who are special and they therefore need a special environment, coaching, inputs. Whereas, SZP tells the story of many people, all who have unique needs, but not as an ‘exception’ to society, but as an integral and natural part of society. In fact, the film stretches the logic to saying everyone of us is unique and has our own quirks and abnormalities in our own special ways. Even the superb decision of casting real-life specially abled actors in the film. The genius byline, that is hammered throughout the film, nails it when it says “Sabka apna apna normal hota hai”.


The third area why TZP and SZP are differently brilliant is the emotions they evoke in the audience. TZP was an outright tear-jerker. We wanted to save Ishaan, protect him, care for him, adopt him, champion him, fight for him, and Aamir as his teacher becomes our agency in the film. It was Ishaan against the world, with Aamir and us fighting for him. SZP, while it has tearful moments, is fundamentally not a cry-athon. Each of the special youngsters is a strong, warm, kick-ass personality that doesn’t evoke sympathy, but a very ‘I get where you’re coming from, let’s resolve this together, shall we’ kind of emotion. Even with Gulshan in the beginning being an asshole with these kids and how he treats them, and then how he grows to relate to them and even the jokes about the challenges and related topics, it is handled with an adult-like maturity and ease. Getting this balance right for a topic of this sensitivity is quite an achievement.


In addition, like any other good film, it’s a very enjoyable and sweetly narrated film. There are several moments in the film that make you laugh, make you cry, make you clap, tug at your heart, tug at your mind, and give you that warm fuzzy feeling of being a parent. The moment when Guddu overcomes his fear of bathing and water through his love for animals (a mouse!). The moment when Aamir discovers his widowed mother has a boyfriend. The moment when Golu overpowers a star player of the opposing team. The many moments when Sunil demonstrates his hypochondriac nature. And so many more. 


But of special note is the final climax scene, which, like in any good sports film, is all about the final match that will decide whether they won in the end or not. This serves as the final masterstroke of the film, bringing to life the real meaning of winning in a world that has completely pivoted to an ‘us vs them’ paradigm. What would make “us” truly happy?


However, there is one important thing that does not work in the film. And again, it is an important not-so-good difference vis-à-vis TZP. The main story in TZP was about Ishaan and his journey; Aamir was an enabler. In SZP, however, the main story is about Gulshan and his journey. And even though each of the special kids is in every scene of the story, they don’t remain as the central plot. We miss the journey that Guddu, Sunil, Golu, Lotus, Sharmaji, Har Govind, and others have or could have had. Given the need for telling Gulshan’s transformation story (even though admittedly as a metaphor for the desired transformation of our society), each of the other characters ends up becoming at best a prop or a canvas in the background. And we can tell that this is not an error of omission but deliberately written this way, seen by comparing the main poster for TZP vs. SZP. In TZP, Ishaan is front and centre (with Aamir as a support). In SZP, it’s all Aamir! Gulshan’s backstory and the reason for his selfish, narrow-minded perspective are also very weak, superficially (and almost irritatingly) depicted through his weirdly-troubled-but not-so-much relationship with his estranged (or is she?) wife, Sunita (badly played by Genelia). Given the importance of Gulshan to the overall impact of the film, this is a really big miss in the film. 

This is the one reason why SZP overall ends up being less impactful than TZP was and continues to be.


All said and done, it’s a movie that must be watched and felt through. Especially during a time when Bollywood big cinema is struggling and it’s harder to get audiences into theatres (unlike 2007 when TZP was released), telling a socially important story like this is really commendable. 

Saturday, July 12, 2025

The Four Seasons, Season 1, Netflix, 2025

In a world obsessed with Gen Z, comes a refreshingly Gen X show on Netflix, from renowned makers Tina Fey, Lang Fisher, and Tracey Wigfield.


A series adaptation of a 1981 cult classic Alan Alda movie, The Four Seasons is an easy 8-episode story of three couples, who, as old friends, go on holidays together once every season. Each season’s holiday is in a separate location in America, with lots of conversations, time spent with each other, doing things connecting, disconnecting, having fun, fights, and a fair amount of emotions. Well past their prime, in the throws of their own unique mid-life crises as couples, they move from one holiday to the next, discovering new sides about each other, not always liking what they see, dealing not only with their own internal anxieties and challenges due to their life stage and the choices they’ve made in their lives, but also with changing realities of their relationships with each other as friends. Do they come together or do they fall apart as they grow a little bit more through the four seasons in the year?


I use the phrase ‘refreshingly Gen X’ for this show because that’s exactly what it is. For many of us, at the same age and life stage, we can relate to the very authentic moments and emotions that the show pulls out in relationships within each of the couples as well as between the six friends individually. If there was a sweet, gentle, light, and humorous way of depicting the very clichéd idea of a mid-life crisis, it would be this show. Whether it’s the couple that gets a divorce because the man is bored of his wife and falls for a PYT (another Gen X term, thank you very much). Or the seemingly most normal couple coming apart at the seams subtly over years of not telling each other what they love or hate about each other. Or the overly romantic gay couple that are coming to grips with the right balance between love and space. 


What really hits the spot is actually not the story. Or what happens. This is not that kind of show. What works is that the writing actively steers clear of stereotypes and superficial characterisation. Each of the characters has a very human sketch and is highly nuanced, and who you can’t pinpoint as having seen in some other show. And yet, in each of the characters, you can find a truth that you’ve seen in people you know. This makes every conversation between each of the characters in the show eminently watchable. Because it’s like being part of a conversation with your friends and family. As the viewer, you’re not watching a show, you’re just the other person sitting on the next couch with these characters.


Jack (Will Forte), the gentle, nice guy that on the face of it would be perfect husband material, but not being the breadwinner of the family, mildly hypochondriac, with little initiative and a high need for attention and love, makes for a perfectly annoying husband material too. Kate (Tina Fey), Jack’s wife, the accomplished, in control, got-it-all-figured-out wife that’s running the show, but also holier-than-thou, judgemental about the people around her and who, over time, has become emotionally unavailable to the man she actually loves very much. Nick (Steve Carell), divorcing his wife of 25 years, being with a younger woman, living the dream and actually happy with it, yet missing his own age group and friends. Anne (Kerri Kenney-Silver), Nick’s wife, being the grieving and bitter divorcee, but also wondering if they really did have a marriage worth saving or was it just a habit that she had gotten comfortable with. Danny (Colman Domingo) as the strong, independent, successful architect, living life on his own terms, but also dealing with a health issue more with denial than with action. Claude (Marco Calvani) as Danny’s husband, who loves Danny more than anything else but also obsessively so much that it comes close to breaking them apart.


The actors do a fabulous job of their characters. The story is told in a simple, heart-warming way. The humour is light. And the moments and the relationships are beautifully depicted.


Romantic Comedy, as the show is being called, is not really how I would describe it. Is it romantic? Perhaps, in its vision of putting people in their everyday lives at the centre of the storytelling. Nothing grand or dramatic. Is it a comedy? Perhaps, in the way it brings about a light and humorous take on the very real emotions and relationships that make people happy or unhappy on a daily basis. But it’s not a rom-com. It’s not about people falling in love. It’s about how love is experienced in a marriage after the magic and the honeymoon are over. It’s not about two people and their ups and downs in getting together or not. It’s about how it’s not just the two people that matter, but how they matter together and separately to each other and to others. It’s not about the trials and tribulations of the beating hearts. It’s about the trials and tribulations of life and how it takes over and yet how we make the best of our lives and relationships.


And that’s why it’s so refreshingly Gen X. It’s a grown-up show, with grown-up emotions, and grown-up lives. Even though we may deal with it in a childish manner. Like I said, refreshingly Gen X!


To all the people of my generation, watch it, because this is us, is what we feel and see around us.

To the Millennials, watch it, because it will remind you not to take yourselves so seriously.

To the Gen Zs, watch it, because it will help you appreciate why your parents also have moods.